Emotional Intelligence: rapidly becoming today’s most sought after business skill.
By Diane Wolverton, State Director, WyomingEntrepreneur.biz
Emotions are a very normal part of business. Emotions are also a little-understood aspect of business management. Your emotions impact how well you do in all areas of life—personal and professional.
The skill of being the master of your own emotions is called emotional intelligence and it is rapidly becoming one of the most sought after skills in the business world. Why? Because business is done through relationships and relationships are made strongest between people who have done their inner work and have become adept at managing their emotions and their reactions.
Much is known about the power of emotions and much has been written about emotional intelligence. Daniel Goleman popularized the term in his bestselling book, Emotional Intelligence: Why it Can Matter More than IQ. Goleman describes four aspects of emotional intelligence:
1. Self-awareness - the ability to read one's emotions and recognize their impact while using gut feelings to guide decisions.
2. Self-management - controlling one's emotions and impulses and adapting to changing circumstances.
3. Social awareness - the ability to sense, understand, and react to other's emotions while comprehending social networks.
4. Relationship management - the ability to inspire, influence, and develop others while managing conflict.
Each aspect of emotional intelligence has important business implications, impacting you in your decision-making, relationship building, conflict management and leadership. The more emotionally intelligent you are, the more competent you become in business.
Developing your EI skills can be done in several ways. You may want to start by doing some research. There are several books on the market including Goleman’s book mentioned above. Another very accessible book is The Emotional Intelligence Quick Book: Everything You Need to Know to Put Your EQ to Work by Travis Bradberry and Jean Greaves, which includes an EI appraisal you can take online. Other resources for building your emotional intelligence include business coaches, personal development retreats and counseling.
Some people think the concept of emotional intelligence is too “soft” to be part of serious business conversation, but the paradigm is rapidly changing. Consider the words of Jack Welch, former Chairman of GE:
"A leader's intelligence has to have a strong emotional component. He has to have high levels of self-awareness, maturity and self-control. She must be able to withstand the heat, handle setbacks and when those lucky moments arise, enjoy success with equal parts of joy and humility. No doubt emotional intelligence is more rare than book smarts, but my experience says it is actually more important in the making of a leader. You just can't ignore it.”






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